Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Rakieta and her sewing machine-Part too many to count


Today's crisis: Rakieta is having a nervous breakdown because Marie Compaore told her she couldn't bring her electric sewing machine to the house unless she could afford to pay for the electricity. Electricity is expensive in Burkina ....and unreliable, but she is also messing with Rakieta's head. So I just reminded her to think American. To be respectful, but to not let Marie stomp out her dreams. The people of Burkina are very gentle and sweet, but there is a dark side to these and many other tribal people I am sure. Here in the US, we are all equal. But in these very old cultures, royalty and servitude are very entrenched. This is just another attempt to make our Wacki remember her place. She is a "have not" and the "haves" never want the "have nots" to get any better off. Don't forget the "Frenchness" of these guys.
All that being said, Marie still provides Rakieta with a much better home and more comfort than she could have with her parents so I usually end the advice with "She's probably just having a bad day. Let it go."
Rakieta is also giving herself ulsers again because she doesn't think she sews well enough to have a sewing business someday. This is why I call 3 times a week. When I don't things go really wonky. So, while parenting across the ocean is challenging, it can be done. It must be done. To this one girl and the people's lives she touches, it makes all the difference.

What A Day!

Yesterday I drove down to our property on the border of the state in Southern Hillsdale County. While we were using it, we loved it. However, as more and more people moved out from where ever, it began to lose it's charm. Then the economy started to turn.....at that point it was just a little. The girls needed to be back in Lapeer County and it was necessary in order for us to resolve our orphan issues. It was just time. Turns out it was a really wise choice. We made the decision Christmas holiday 2004. Just think of all the economic doom and gloom since. Well, with all the chaos from caring for Grandpa and Grandma we didn't get down last year during warm weather. So I made the decision to go yesterday just to check on things.
It was a little disheartening to deal with everything I witnessed. Of course there were a very large amount of reposessions. There are everywhere in Michigan. But where I was driving, there was also a huge amount of vandalism. That was a little spooky. Then when I got to the property, I was greeted with the fact that someone had stolen our 3 sided sheds.
As I was getting my bearings about that, I noticed a weird truck casing the road. More on him in a minute. Anyway, the 40 acre parcel of woods across the street was raped of it's trees. It was being logged, but you could tell the work was VERY, VERY shoddy. The piece will be ruined when they are done. Weird creepy guy still casing neighborhood. Then I drove up to the last house on our side of the state line. Completely empty. As in repo'ed empty. Then my missing sheds began to make sense as this family had a habit of having sticky fingers. Meanwhile the creepy guy was still hanging out. Now he was sitting in front of our place. So I drove down and talked to him. He was really creepy and was less than honest with me. So I decided I better talk to the neighbors. Anyway, as it turns out , creepy guy was part of the secondary wood crew. The land had been sold to Amish and they were logging it, but had either worked a deal with the creepy guy to finish clear cutting OR he was in there bootlegging. He had gotten into a big fight with our next door neighbor and that was probably the reason for the lurking and slinking. I think he was probably trying to see if he was home.
Of course during all the neighbor communicating I was doing, I had to hear all about the moron from Hell who lived up on the hill in the original farm house. Now he is harassing the neighbor closest to him over their generator. He has harassed every neighbor there including us. And those of you who know us at all, know we are not the type of neighbor who needs to be harassed. In addition, our sheds were not the only thing pilfered. The theft through there was so bad that one gentleman who had hunting land packed up his camper and moved everything home. So, things have not really changed there for the better. I was so very glad to get home and step foot on my crappy 2 1/3 acres and my beautiful old farmhouse! While things are sometimes boring in the thumb of Michigan, they are never insane like things seem to be all the time down there.
The good thing is that 2 neighbors both would like our land. So we shall see what transpires.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Cold Blustery Saturday



Well, our short little warm spell is over. I guess we need to blame that big DC storm. No snow here but a rotten northeast wind that is very biting. Chickens will not be let out today. They'd freeze their little tukases.
Mostly I am in front of the heater at the horse show so I stay pretty toasty, but when the doors get opened too much I am forced to deal with the reality of how cold it really is. I need to put on my long johns because later Matt and I will be out marching around on what will hopefully be our new property. 1mile from the house on a dirt road and very close to where we already ride. I have waited so long for this, I don't even know how I feel.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Box For Rakieta's Mom

I am pretty excited about this box. Rakieta's mom is a sister to me. First of all, she has lent us her daughter. I can never thank her enough for that. 2nd of all, she has spunk and character. All of her children have been to school. She has sacrificed a lot for this, but all have attended school. Rakieta was the one exception because of her handicap, but education and broadening horizons is very important to her. Rakieta's life has taken a dramatic turn because very few of her people have left the region, let alone been to America. So it is with great care that I pack her box. Of course there are the normal goodies like shampoo, toothpaste, etc but I also have spoons, wall hangers, pillows and other things moms care about. She is going to be ecstatic. When I go this time, I am making sure she gets a plastic chair or 2 and probably some chickens. If we get started on a hut for Rakieta, she will live there.
It is her spunk that has made for such thunder and lightening between she and her husband, but when I look at the 2nd wife's children with the blank, hungry stares and know how grim their future is, I have very deep respect and admiration for this woman.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Painting

Our dining room is in desperate need of an update. And yet I dread this job. Our dining room is the catch all room for the house. All the computers are in there, it is still loaded with school supplies, the sewing machines are set up in there and of course we eat in there.
In addition it has not been painted since 1994. It needs work! So Jeni and I are starting the slow process of beginning the job. I am not excited, but it will be worth the effort in the end.
I think I would love a day in the 50"s and sunshine so I can avoid this job and go outside.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Good Morning!


I am in a silent house, at 8:56 am on a Saturday. This is very abnormal. The dog is out, the girls are at a dance convention, Matt is sleeping and the cats are napping. Even the chicks are quiet. Maybe because it is soooooo cold.
I should be at Home Depot already, but I am not motivated enough and I have a lengthy to do list. What else is new?!
I am also a dismal failure at finding good graphics online now that I am not using Incredimail anymore. And back when all the computers blew up, I lost all my very sacred clip art I had so dutifully saved from my Incredimail stationary. What is a girl to do?

Still for all my grousing, Life is humming along pretty good. Olga and Stephanie checked in and I will have a long conversation with Rakieta today. So all daughters, birth and adopted are accounted for. I can't always say that. The Kalinowski Family is in a place of completion. So many dreams and goals finally can be moved to the done pile. It really feels good. I also feel really blessed. Right now it seems the folks from above are working pretty hard on us. I can feel beings around, but more tangibly, I can see the results. Thanks everyone.

Well, I need to get my butt out of my chair and start my day. So adios for now. I'll check in later.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Paperwork Blues

Today I get to cook for the snack bar and then I get to sit and do paperwork most or all of the day. Did I ever mention how much I hate paperwork?? I am a social butterfly.
I do not mind sitting for a couple of hours weekly on the normal household stuff, but I really hate lengthy, monotonous stuff like filing, income taxes, G&G's final passing paperwork, Rakieta's embassy paperwork, you get it.....
Unfortunately, I am finding the older and more established we get, the worse this paperwork issue is getting. Good thing I have more patience now than when I was in my 20's.
Anyway, I have a plethora of monotonous stuff today. I hope there is decent stuff on tv to listen to while I suffer through my tasks.
Upside, I don't feel overwhlmed with all this any more. So all my weeks, months, and years of sitting here getting things under control one piece of paper at a time and not going out to play is finally paying off.
I am getting pretty close to being ready for the rollar coaster ride of going to Burkina Faso once again and the fast paced frenzy of our production this year which is "Circus."
Now to just get the house completely repainted before things get too busy once again.